I want to share abt what we overheard at the mall the other day. It's a simple conversation between a pregnant lady and her son abt 6-7 yo.
We walked into the mall, and we saw a lady with her son,other daughter and her Mom.They were sitting on a chair by the door.
As we walked,I overheard this lady said to her son :
Lady : Did you tell your Dad that I'm having a baby?
Son : Yes.He said, " I don't care,as long as it's not mine ".
Lady : ( quiet )..........................
As I passed them and overheard that, I was quite. The lady expected said something else,but it turned into bad opinion. She looked at me and I pretended not to hear that.I know she's so embarassed.
Ronnie who was holding MeiLee,turned to me and we looked at one each other. I asked him," Hun,did you hear that ?" Ronnie said," Yes..I tried not to laugh,but,boyyyyyyyyy..that's not a smart answer for a kid to tell.Bet she got baby from another guy."
I think so. In the other hand,it's funny to see and hear how naive a kid can be.They just say whatever they're told. But,when it comes to certain things, I don't think it's an appropriate manner to teach kids to say bad words ( words that can hurt someone's feeling ).
I believe this pregnant lady had broken up with the boy's father.They have issues,and this lady's pregnant again. Don't care from whom,but telling the kid to tell the Mom what the father says??? Hello ???????????????
If the parents have problems,I don't think they need to tell the kids how bad their feelings. The father might dislike and not care abt the mother,but hey...... he doesn't need to add more pain with the words.
Ronnie and I discussed abt it.He said," Pity kids..Trapped in the middle because of the parents' behaviours." I am so sad, I am hurt..As a mother, it's like an offense for me,having a kid told me abt the dad's opinion.
Oh,boy....my eyes are opened now. I've never seen this happened before. Freedom of speech is way too liberal here. * omongan kdg gak difilter.*
My questions :
Who is blamed in this ?? Parents don't teach the manner or.... ?
or... is this the way of life now ?