June 20th :Shopping to Kohl's with Ronnie

Finally...... after persuading Ronnie to go shopping to Kohl's, he made it. ^__^ . Susah banget diajak shopping nih calon bapak.

I cooked his Egg Sandwich before we left and got ready.I bought some patriotic t-shirt which was on sale. Bought 10 pieces ^__^.

Then we stopped by to have massage. ^___^. 3 minutes.. I sat down next to him and enjoy the massage. :D

We passed Payless Shoes and pulled his hand to get in.Ronnie said," What are you doing,hun?"

I sat down on the floor and picked one pair.I made him try and walk around. I asked," How do they feel ?" Ronnie said," They're ok ". We looked for another pair again and seems like Ronnie liked the 1st ones.

He said,' I don't need ones,hun." I said,"Hushhhh.. I am buying for you." He said," I am shopping with you for your need,not mine." I replied,' I am shopping for your need this time ." :P

He asked," How much do they cost ? " Ahh mo tau aja :P

I brought the box and paid. I handed to him and he couldn't said anything. He said," Thank you. Goofy girl." :P

We walked around and decided to have some fries. We stopped by at Jhony Rockets.The place is designed back to 50's. It has tiny jukebox,too.

After having fries, we left home. Now, gotta go back to the bar. Moppingggggggggggggg :P

June 29th : Soupy Meals

Yes... udh sakit begini, seems I have to eat soupy meals. I need energy,baby. :D

Yesterday I cooked Pork Soup and Mung Bean with Pearl. I haven't finished it all, then today I was attempted to cook Maling.

Agh... taste good... soupy... ^___^. While chatting with Devi, I was cooking and it took abt 10-15 mnts.

I put some Pork Skin crackers,make it cruncy taste. He he he .

Mom just came back from Kroger,and as usual,she bought me Doughnut... raspberry one!!!

[ Kesel ] - Visa Ditolak

Mo curhat.. lagi kesel bangettttttttttttt

Yesterday my sister had an interview in US Embassy,Jakarta.From here,we had prepared everything, even the sponsorship letter,the tax return,copies of  my PR,passport and Ronnie's.

Danggggggggggggg... A few hours later,I called her.She said she's rejected.The reason ??? NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!

She brought all the papers and was interviewed by a black lady.She spoke Indonesian.My sister gave her all the papers and she said," I don't wanna see them,I just need to see your Family Card ".

Amoy gave her the FC.She looked at it and said," You come from the big family,huh?" She said," Yes."

Next question, what the purpose to go to States ( Amoy answered visiting the pregnant sister who would give a birth on Oct ). What's my status in the USA,how I met Ronnie,how long we've been marrying. Those questions were answered by Amoy.

Then,the lady typed something in her computer,and gave Amoy a piece of paper said," I am sorry." BAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

She rejected my sister without any reasons.She even didn't want to read the files from us.I am so disappointed.

Amoy said there're many people are rejected.Two people in front and behind her were accepted,but not her. That's weird.

I have a pregnant friend,too.She applied visa for her sister ( who's still in college,she was failed in her thesis,but got the visa ).She's married with Indonesian guy. Dunno how the Embassy's consideration in giving visa.

Before we applied visa for Amoy,we read all the instructions.The applicant was asked to bring documents that can strenghten the reason to go to States. We had done it.But,the lady didn't wanna take a few seconds to look at our papers.

If she's looking at my name in the FC,she still could see my name there.But,of course my last name wasn't the old one anymore. Aghhh... keselnya minta ampun.

I called Ronnie and cried.I expected that Amoy would be given the visa,so she could come and take care of me during my labor for a while.I asked Ronnie to call to the Embassy,but Ronnie said,"Baby,they won't tell you why.We'll try next time."

Anybody experiences the same thing like we do ?? Any idea what's wrong with it ??  I still don't feel satisfied abt this. Makes me worse,esp. I am still not in a good condition.

 

June 26th : One Day in the Good Sam Hospital

Early this morning at 9.30am.......
Me and Mom went to visit my doctor.I had toast and OJ for my bfast.When I was in the check up room,I threw up. I had to go back and forward to the bathroom. I felt so bad. My face was pale.

The doctor checked me.He said he'd give me Venergan ( lahhhh ... no way!!!!!!!!!!!! I had it before ). I told him,' NO!!! It knocked me out.You've gave me before and it didn't work at all.Made me like having dope. " Then he decided to send me to Good Sam to check the Gall Bladder.

The doctor said," Now go to Good Sam.They're waiting for you." We drove to the hospital and I was taken care there.

They put me in a room and put IV on my arm.Awww...apa pula ini :(

I didn't know what's going on.They said that I would be taken downstairs to have the
Gall Bladder
test.

I was freezing...really cold.Kathy,the nurse told me it'd take a couple hours to be in the hospital. I decided to send Mom home.Kathy said she'd call Mom as soon as I was done.

It's on the 5th floor, I was put in another room.Gosh... really colddddddddddddd. They gave me another warm blankie.

The lady name Debra checked me.She asked me to take a deep breath,hold and breath. Goodness..... I bet she'd done around 50-60 times!!!!!!!!!!! Then she said," Can you hold your breath for me any longer?" Huh ????? I thought I had. I told him," Excuse me,I couldn't hold it for 10-15 secs.I got a breathing problem here." Ughhh... org lagi sakit begini disuruh tahan nafas lama2.. Koit ntar gmn ? :P

Suddenly I was shiffering. I told her," Can I go to the bathroom,pls ?? " She looked at me and said," Can we finish this first?" Aghh... Ok .

Dang... it took another 10 mnts to be with her.I felt down there was throbbing.Time to pee!!!!!!!!! I said to her,' EXCUSE ME. I CAN'T WAIT ANYMORE.IT'S THROBBING DOWN THERE."

Then she let me pee. I should have known that she's still a student ( around 50ish yo ). Her friend came and said," You got some good pics here." She said," I tried to, she couldn't hold her breath for me." Dodol lu!!!! Kyk mo photo shooting aja.

Then, I was taken out and put in Inpatient Holding. Lah.. mo ke mana lagi ini??? I told Debra that my IV's bottle was empty.She said,"There's nothing I can do abt it,hun." Well.. the other staff saw it and said," You'll be taken upstairs,Mam,they will give you another one." She's sweet.

Another nurse took me back to 9th floor and changed my IV.Kathy came back and said," Goodness, how long did they take time to check you ? I was having lunch and I was thinking abt you,your spicy food. " he he he he.She's so nice.

I told Kathy ,Debra took lots of time to check my gall bladder.She was surprised to see my IV's bottle was empty.She was disappointed with the clerk on the lower floor.

Jaime,my customer who I met at the parking lot texted me.She wanted to visit me.She came and spent time a while with me. I told the nurse I was having heart burn.

The doctor came and checked me.She said," I am waiting for the gall bladder's result.Hopefully it'll be fine." I said I was starving. She said," Oh.. you haven't eaten anything yet?? I'll get you some food."

Within 5 mnts, the nurse brought me some food. Aghh... yesssss!!!!!!!! Lafar sekaleeeee... I was an OK food,eventhough I didn't like wild rice,I was forced to eat.

Suddenly I was so sleepy.Jaime left and I took a short nap.Mom called me.She wondered what's going on with me. I told her I haven't got an answer yet.

Soon,Kathy came and said that I was clear.I could go home.She said that I was lack of Iron , Anemia. I have guessed so. Kurang makan sayuran sih :P

She gave me perscription for Iron. Then,she's talking abt
Reflux Acid
that causes Heart Burn. No wonderrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr................. I was suggested not to eat lots of spicy food. Iya deh..nyerah,bu ......

I was clear and could go home. I said to Kathy," Aghh.. I wanna stay here overnite.It's quite." She laughed and said," You're so funny!!! I've never seen a patient like you.. you're so panicked when I put the needle in your hand, histerical and this time you don't wanna go home. " :P

The doctor told me the Gall Bladder's result was normal.I didn't have any gall stones.Thank God!!!!!!!!!!

I called Mom back and had her pick me home. Mom dropped me home and went to Pharmacy picked up my perscription. I was taking a rest till 9 pm and had my dinner. I called Ronnie he said," I am coming to pick you eh see you for a while ,hun." Mom's already at the bar.

I went downstaird,I smelt something. Aghh.. it's burger.It made me sick.I had to put it away from my nose. I boiled some water and had Indomie. I need something soupy this time.

When I was cooking,I called my family.It's my 2nd elder sister's bday,Cie Vivie. My whole family's there to celebrate her bdays.When I was in the middle of the conversation,Mami said," Mei,Oom Chun and Oom Dem are here.Wanna talk to them? " OH YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oom Chun just arrived from Bandung a day ago.He came with his family to visit his hometown.He's born in Siantar,never been home for yearsssssssssssssssssssssssss.I talked to him and his kids. It's a blessing to be around the family again. Mami said," Full House." ha ha ha ha.


Ronnie arrived and I spent time with him.He's laying down on bed.He wanted to cuddle up with me.I am so glad to see him.We've been missing one each other.

He felt asleep ( as I always think so ).He said," Don't stop spoiling me.I am enjoying it.You make me fall asleep." Bah!!!!!!!

He stayed with me almost for 1 hour and then went to the hospital.He didn't want me to work tonite.I might go back working tomorrow nite.Ronnie said,' Honey, don't worry abt it.We'll take care of you.Love ya..."

Ok then,baby... Thank you.... I can have another off nite.

P.S : Thank you for all of you who care abt me. Lid,sorry,jadi ngerepotin sms segala . :P

To Cindy n Novi,thanks a lot udah telp ke rmh.Thnks to Jaime,Dece n Robert ( Duh... I'm gonna miss him.He's moving to CA next week.I lost my chance to see him for the last time at the bar tonite ).

Keep praying for my health.

Sakit..........Gak Ada Abisnya :(

Kok...masih sakit ya ? Kok masih muntah2 ya ?? Kok jantung rasanya berdegup gak karuan ? Heart burn gitu,plus perut mules mulu.Pinggang sakit,kadang jalan harus bungkuk kyk Oma2. Kaki kebas. Menderita sekali yg lagi hamil beginian. :(

Dari bbrp hari lalu perasaan udh gak enak.Tapi dipaksa kerja juga.Ada pesta,dijabanin juga ikut ke sana ke mari,malamnya lanjut kerja sampe subuh.Plg2 ke rumah,pinggang sakit,tidur kadang juga gak nyenyak.Mata ketutup,tapi otak jalan terus.Keliatan aja badan yg tepar semalaman di tmpt tidur,tapi otak melayang ke sana ke mari.

Apa krn kurang olahraga? Kurang gerak ? Kata Ronnie," lack of exercises,esp.for the streching." Duh,kyknya kalo udh bartending,badan bergerak semua deh,banyak diri juga.Tapi dia blg,"that's different,babe.I am talking abt your back,strech. Do some exercises, I bought you a CD for pregnant woman to do exercise.But,I've never seen you done it. " :P

Sorry,Oom,lagi gak mood aja olahraga2 via cd begitu.Si Mom skrg udh mulai bantu2 di bar,jadi kadang di rmh seharian bengong ria.Bosaannnnnnnnnnn.Malamnya baru keluar,kyk kalong kerja sampe subuh. Apa krn kebanyakan duduk dpn compie? Weleh...bisa jadi.

Summer begini,AC udh pada diidupin.Ya elah... tulungggg.... ekke gak tahan,bow.. Menggigil kyk org pesakitan.AC idup, kipas angin idup.Untung aja itu AC menghadap ke arah tmpt tidur Ronnie.Kadang suka golek2 ,gak sadar badan menghadap ke AC, brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...... blankie...blankie... tolong,yg double ya. Pake kaos kaki n gloves sekalian plus jacket tebel. *Ya elah,Mei.. ini Summer apa Winter?????*

Hari ini gak enak badan banget.Bangun hampir jam 3 sore.Makan,panasin sambel ikan.Dalam hati,' Weks... mudah2an gak muntah aja.Cium baunya udah gmn2 gitu." Dimakan juga. Ups...... muntah dikit. :(

Jam 6 sore,si Mom masak di dapur.Bau ayam dipanggang ke mana. Aduh,tulung...... baunya bisa diusir ke tempat lain gak ya ??? Ini sesek banget,rasanya mo muntah !!! Sengaja menyembunyikan diri di basement,biar baunya gak keras2 amat.Eh,kecium juga.

Si Mom turun blg kalo saatnya makan malam.Sorry,Mom,I couldn't smell the food.Make me sick :( . Untung Mom mengerti. Alhasil, I skipped my dinner.

 

Ronnie telp, lagi enak2 ngobrol, lari ke kmr mandi, uwekkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk... semua isi makanan keluar :( . Nyelekit di tenggorokan,kecium bau ikan, rasanya gak karuan.Perut sakitnya minta ampun. Sambil usap2 perut ngomong ke Baby Ries,"Honey,don't make Mommy sick,pls. I love you.Be good ". 

Ronnie was worried.He did think I needed to go to the  hospital this morning. Ahh...  bisa ditunda sampe bsklah.

Bandel juga.Lagi muntah, Ronnie telp lagi.Tadinya siap2 mo kerja,naik ke kamar,mo ganti baju.Eh,badan gemetaran.Ronnie bener2 khawatir.Ujung2nya golek di tempat tidur,nangis,ngomong gak jelas blg sakit perut  hiks..hiks..hiks...hiks...

Mom naik ke atas, blg kalo dia yg ke bar aja.Ronnie ngomong ke Mom make sure I'm gonna be ok.Mata bengkak krn nangis.Si Mom usap2 kepala tanya,"What can I do, Mei-Mei2 ? Let me know,pls... I won't let you work tonite.You really don't feel good.Ronnie wants you to take a nite off tonite,too.We'll be fine." Agh... Puji Tuhan,dpt mertua yg ngerti mantu.

Sudah jam 8 malam.Lapar.....Bingung mo makan apa, ujung2nya balik lagi makan sambal ikan sisa semalam. Duh... lidah rasanya kelu,gak ada rasa.Badan masih gak enak, perut msh sakit ( untung aja tadi udh telp dokter,minta periksa bsk pagi.Diksh jadwal jam 9.30am ). Muntah lagi ...muntah lagi....

 

Well.. kyknya harus diskip makan yg pedes2 lagi hamil begini.

Sehari semalam di rmh,bosan juga :(

I hope doctor will be giving me a satifying answer abt my condition.